No to restaurants that refuse children!
- 08 Jun 2016
- News from the restaurant industry
- 2 Comments
Have you ever experienced that awkward feeling at a restaurant with your child? Or been refused service because the restaurant does not accept strollers?
Welcome Family take action! "Against restaurants that refuse children"
We ourselves as parents have been there. No seats for us, no children's menus... It's true that many restaurants don't offer children's menus! Nothing more annoying when you have small children ... And on top of all that they are not equipped for baby to be at the table or no changing table for baby ? A moment of pleasure ends up becoming a moment of constraint... In these cases, the reflex is to say next time I will not come back here!
Remember 3 years ago, in 2013, this restaurant in Antibes that refuses babies! A poster displayed on its restaurant window "here no strollers, no babies". This restaurant owner completely assumed his words "First, there is a safety concern. In case of fire, I am responsible. Secondly, the people who come to eat at my place want peace and quiet. Those who have children pay a nanny to look after them; it's not to put up with other people's kids!
It's not only in France. In the USA, the practice of "No Kids Allowed" is common and legal. Some restaurants are deliberately forbidden to young children. There are even supermarkets (Whole Foods) in the United States, where in certain time slots children are not allowed in the aisles! In North Carolina, the Olde Salty's restaurant warns with a sign on its door "screaming children will not be tolerated". We still hope that this practice will not become common in France..
This is a real loss of earnings for all its restaurants ... Today families go out more and more to restaurants with children, so why not bet on it as a restaurateur? Offer a children's menu, equip yourself correctly and pamper the children to keep the parents loyal. Unfortunately, we notice that very few restaurants are concerned with welcoming families.
Testimony of Fredéric, founder of the Welcome Family brand at the Bistrot des Philosophes in Aix-en-Provence
"I suggest to my wife to go and eat on a terrace in the sun one Sunday with our two little ones (Milo 10 years old and Gabriel 5 years old)
We stop in a restaurant known to be "expensive" (dishes at more than 25 €), but the setting and the decoration are well worth it. When we read the menu, we realize that there is no children's menu and no dish suitable for our 5 year old. I kindly ask the waiter if he can propose us a suitable dish for children. He sends me the boss... I introduce myself, I present our welcome family activity, and I suggest him to create a child menu. This gentleman informs me that he has just bought the restaurant, he adds that he is a Parisian (so what?) and he tells me that he will talk about my suggestion to his wife and turns on his heels (like always talking...)
Unfortunately for this restaurant owner
I am a native of the city, I know a lot of people and therefore word of mouth will work in negative ... And finally we went to eat elsewhere (A la Mado) and left a bill of 115 € for our table with children !!! All's well that ends well, we were in the sun, with impeccable service and we and our children happy."
As you know, we provide many establishments in France (restaurants and hotels) to customers who are convinced that it is important to take good care of their customers, especially children!
To help families find a "kid friendly" establishment, we reference all these establishments in our guide. The objective is to make up for these bad experiences. In these establishments, children are welcomed like kings!
And you, what is your opinion on this subject?
" No kids allowed " or " welcome family
Don't forget to tell us about your experiences in our listed establishments.
Let us know about your good or bad experiences!
Mes parents ne m'emmenaient pas partout (et cependant je crois que je n'étais pas chiant). Je n'ai pas emmener mon fils, jeune, au restaurabnt. Et cependant il était calme. Maintenant les parents se permettent d'ennuyer les autres avec leurs mioches mal éduqués. Jadis les mamans pliaient les poussettes avant de monter dans les bus. C'est terminé! Les gens sont des gorets pour beaucoup.
Moi aussi j'étais très bien éduquée par mes parents quand j'étais enfant. Cependant, en public (ex : au restaurant, comme c'est écrit dans l'article), j'étais très calme et sage la plupart du temps afin de respecter les autres autour de moi (c'est vrai que quelquefois j'étais capricieuse, égoïste et égocentriques on est d'accord) et pourtant, mes parents ne m'emmenaient pas partout car eux aussi, avaient besoin d'une soirée, d'avoir des vacances, des moments tranquilles et d'intimité à eux deux, dans le calme, sans cris et sans pleurs.
Maintenant, je suis totalement d'accord avec vous : effectivement, comme vous le dites, les parents d'aujourd'hui, même en période de Covid 19, se permettent d'ennuyer les autres avec leurs mioches mal éduqués, idem quand les vacances d'été arrivent (manque de politesse, irrespect des autres, cris, rires, caprices et pleurs continuels, argumentation incessante, questions stupides et/on conversations d'adultes qui ne les regardent pas, même repas midi et soir (c'est-à-dire coquillettes-jambon et non des légumes), piscine éclaboussée h24, doudou h24 collé sur eux alors qu'il faut s'en détacher vers 4-5-6 ans, désintéressement aux nouvelles visites/ qu'il y a autour d'eux, fusion et dépendance de la mère, manque de socialisation avec des enfants de son âge, etc...).
Alors qu'autrefois, nous les parents, on savait très bien éduquer nos enfants (y compris en société), ce qui les a permis de sortir et acceptés partout sans honte : être sage, finir son assiette car sinon, il n'y avait pas de dessert, manger de tout sans rechigner et en silence, ne pas prendre la parole à table, s'occuper seul silencieusement, arrêter de déranger nos parents, savoir lire, savoir jouer d'un instrument de musique, savoir parler une langue étrangère et plus spécialement l'anglais, ne pas courir partout y compris sur la plage, être couché à des heures précises, etc...
Bref, on avait davantage notre place d'enfant. Point barre !
Et aujourd'hui, comme vous le dites, la plupart des parents ne savent pas remettre leurs mioches à leur place d'enfant. D'ailleurs, comme vous le savez, j'ai 24 ans et je n'ai plus envie d'entendre les cris, caprices, pleurs, jérémiades ou questions stupides des enfants des autres puisque j'ai VRAIMENT passé l'âge de subir ce genre de comportement ! Voilà !